Friday, September 23, 2011

Lessons from the Evening Primrose


 Evening Primrose at dusk


A friend gave me an intriguing plant called the Evening Primrose.  Although the leaves almost look like a dandelion it has beautiful flowers on it. Suddenly in the evening spikes with a bulge on the end will appear. Only at dusk a brilliant yellow flower opens.  It may take only five or ten minutes for the tight blossom incased in green, to open to a fragrant full bloom.  It is delightful to observe the movement of the flower.  The bloom only lasts for one night and the next morning the flower dies.  The Evening Primrose fascinates me, and on a summer evening you might find me sitting on my porch, watching the flowers open.  It is mesmerizing and reminds me of the Disney movies I saw as a kid which showed plants in slow motion.

One night I was startled to find twelve brilliant blooms!  They were beautiful, but I was so disappointed because I had not seen them open.  Being that I did not want to miss their beauty, I decided to have my early morning cup of tea, sitting by the flowers.  Surprisingly, I began to notice another beauty from the flowers—the closing and the dying of the flowers.  They slowly began to change their color.  The dazzling yellow bloom slowly faded to a lovely pale orange color.  It takes a much longer period of time for the flowers to fold up and die than it does to open.  I was happy that I had taken the time to just sit by my flowers and discover this new beauty.

The Evening Primrose reminds us to live in the present.  I would have missed more of the magnificence of the flower if I had not slowed down that morning to sit by them and observe. This reminded me to just be with people around me and appreciate each life for what is there.
How much richer life is when we do this?

As this flower was given to me, I too have passed it on to others.   My mother in Indiana and a friend in Maryland have enjoyed its beauty.  I asked another friend in Grand Rapids if she would like a start, and her reply was, “No, why would I want that—it lasts for only a short time, and only at night at that!”  Ah…but she is the one who is missing out!  Sad she could not take in the present.

A fading primrose with a lovely color!

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